yes and I've never felt so guilty before. I called him the day after the party where I kissed another.... I could hve kept my mouth shut cuz my bf was from another city, but that would even more wrong so damn I lost my bf that day
No, I did tell my boyfriend when I started thinking about other people and told him that that meant for me that the relationship would not be lived to the fullest on my part so that I'd rather just stay friends. I don't regret my decision because in the end I was confronted with what kind of guy he really was and I became a better woman for it.
But, as terrible as this may sound, it was out of pure cruelty. I honestly think this guy deserved it. He was constantly suspicious of me, BEFORE i ever did anything, and he was hiding stuff from me, too. He had done stuff with his ex's he wouldn't admit to.
I told him straight up, though. I might've failed at loyalty then, but he didn't deserve me.
Now, I can never even think about doing this to my bassist. He is too sweet for this. <3
Yeah, and I think it happens more often then not. I kissed my ex at the begging of my relationship with my fiancee, I didn't tell him for a long long time. When I did tell him, he admitted to a time a year into our relationship that he got it on with a his best friend's ex. O.o Its a long and complicated story and process, but we got over it. We're happier now they we ever have been, and still going strong. I think cheating is something you can get over and move on from. The saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is NOT true.